Communication

Communication is vital for relationships to thrive. We know this, yet often times we avoid it when talking and sharing feels uncomfortable. It might feel as if life would be easier if we didn't engage in conversations that cause uneasiness. The easy answer however, often leads to tension caused by the lack of actually pushing through the tough talks. To have these talks though; to engage in these conversations; it has the ability to put the heart at ease and ignite peace. I shared some feelings with someone the other night; feelings that were not easy for me to share. The conversation sparked a bit of tension and awkwardness. However, when the night was over I felt peace. I felt resolve. I walked away feeling as if my relationship with this other person was building on a solid foundation of communication and honesty. Damn that feels good. It also feels different. I like different. Although "different" can be difficult, it can also be refreshing.
I feel good today. There is a lightness in my step. There is an assurance in my heart. Although the future holds fast to uncertainty, I feel much more courageous in my pursuit to face it.